Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah: My father died and left seven or nine girls and I married a matron. Allah's Apostle said to me,   O Jabir! Have you married?   I said,   Yes.   He said,   A virgin or a matron?   I replied,   A matron.   he said,   Why not a virgin, so that you might play with her and she with you, and you might amuse her and she amuse you.   I said,    `Abdullah (my father) died and left girls, and I dislike to marry a girl like them, so I married a lady (matron) so that she may look after them.   On that he said,   May Allah bless you,   or   That is good.